“Approach Anxiety – Why Are You Scared To Talk To Girls?”
Approach anxiety is an emotional fear that you feel all throughout your entire body when you are about ready to approach a woman. It can be such a powerful feeling that you may feel like you can’t even move. Needless to say this can be a very frustrating problem to deal with.
The fear of the approach is actually hard wired into your brain from all the way back in the cave man days. You see when we used to live in tribes we had to be very careful with the women we would choose to approach. Approaching the wrong woman at the wrong time could mean the end of your life. You didn’t know if they were already taken and if their mate would come and bash a rock over your head. Or you risked being rejected by her and word getting out that you are not worthy male and thus be forced out of the tribe to find a mate which would then mean you would have to be on your own and chance of survival would be very low. So back in this era is was actually a good thing to have approach anxiety, it kept you alive and out of harms way.
However as you can see this day and age approach anxiety serves no purpose at all. You generally don’t have to worry about some other guy bashing a rock over your head or one single girl telling the whole world how she had to turn you down. Never the less the fear of approach is still engraved inside us all.
Can approach anxiety ever be cured? Unfortunately no, not totally anyway you will always have a little sense of fear when approaching an attractive woman, but the more and more you approach women the less and less severe the approach anxiety becomes. Now that you have a better understanding of what approach anxiety is and where it comes from you will at least be able to acknowledge the feeling and move on and talk to the girl!