Factors Of Attraction

Be Comfortable With Your Sexuality

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As a man it is extremely important that you are comfortable with your sexuality. There is nothing more natural than a man and woman coming together to have sex. If you are insecure in any way with your body, touching, performing, or anything else, it can lead to a number of problems. It could be your problem for not having confidence talking to women in the first place. A man who radiates sexual confidence has an easier time attracting women. You are a sexual being and you should not apologize for being so.

Here are some truths to help you get over your false beliefs about sex and help you gain more confidence.

Women Like Sex As Much As Men

Some men assume women do not enjoy sex as much as men so sex becomes something they’re trying to get from her. This is completely false. Women enjoy sex just as much, if not more, than men.

Men are attracted to the physical attributes of a woman and will decide, “oh I’d have sex with her” before even getting to know her.

Women are not like that. A woman needs to be certain that you are the confident alpha man you seem to be. Once a woman is confident she knows enough about who you are she will feel comfortable sleeping with you. This doesn’t mean she likes sex any less than you. It’s just that she doesn’t want to sex any loser on the street.

If you’re still not convinced that women enjoy sex as much as men consider the female clitoris has as many or more nerve endings as the male penis and is the only human organ whose sole purpose is sexual pleasure!

Penis Size Doesn’t Matter

Some men reading this are probably already feeling a sigh of relief. Some women reading this might disagree so lets explain.

The reason it is commonly thought that men with bigger penises are more pleasurable for women is a large penis is more likely to hit pleasure zones in the vagina. This same stimulation can be achieved with knowledge of what your doing regardless of size.

Men around the world are obsessed with penis size. Companies try to capitalize off this false belief with things like penis pumps, pills, exercises and hundreds of other products that don’t work.

Pornographic images and movies are made with guys with unusually large penises, which only fuels the average guy’s insecurity.

The truth is there aren’t a lot of women that are concerned with size. It’s mostly men that obsess over their size. Women are more likely to orgasm from oral and/or manual stimulation than intercourse.

Learn Sexual Techniques

A lot of men are clueless when it comes to giving their woman pleasure. They treat sex as something they are taking from her. Short boring sex then it’s over. It’s no wonder there are women who think they can’t orgasm!

Why not give your woman the most pleasurable sexual experience of her life? There is nothing more powerful for your sexual confidence than to know you can give a woman infinite pleasure!

Remember a woman is more likely to orgasm from oral or manual stimulation so knowing what your doing makes all the difference. Please her like no other man can and she won’t want to leave you because you are the only one who can make her feel that good!

There are many different ways to give a woman an orgasm.  One of the best ways is to stimulate her G Spot.

Practice Makes Perfect

If you haven’t had a lot of sex, don’t feel bad about not being good at it. Like anything else it takes experience to get good. Find a woman you feel comfortable with and do some experimenting. Ask her for feedback and get some experience under your belt.

 

3 Rules for Ultimate Success with Exotic Dancers

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Ever since I started Factors of Attraction Blog the feedback has been great! Men have been enjoying success with women that they never imagined.

One question that I commonly get asked is “How can I improve success with picking up and dating Exotic Dancers (Strippers)?”

Exotic Dancers are a unique niche group of women that require certain guidelines if you want to be successful in taking them home. While sometimes it can seem difficult, Exotic Dancers can be the easiest women to seduce!

OK, lets get started…

RULE #1

The number one rule when it comes to picking up Exotic Dancers is NEVER let the dancers see you as a customer! Strippers are in the club to make money. Their job is to get money from men who are willing to pay them for attention, aka “The Customer”. This is why a Stripper’s number one rule is never date a customer! It’s bad for business!

How do you avoid being the “customer” at the strip club? Here are rules you need to stick to in order to avoid being a customer.

  • NEVER for any reason spend money on a Stripper! Once you spend money on her the chances of her seeing you as anything other than the other horny losers in the club are slim. This is not about being a cheap asshole. It’s about staying away from being labeled a “customer” and ruining your chances with her.
  • Do NOT let the Strippers dance for you. Again it is extremely important for the girls to not see you as a customer. Getting a dance is the quickest way to get labeled a customer. I know it can be very tempting to get a dance when you have a beautiful woman who is mostly naked right there willing to do so, but you must avoid this action now if you want to take her home later!
  • Do NOT touch the girls. You are trying to convey that you are a cool guy, not another pervert customer. Play it cool and don’t touch the girls. If they touch you be cool and don’t make a big deal out of it.
  • Do NOT stay in the club for a long time. This is a common behavior shared amongst the desperate men who waist all their hard earned money in the club. This is definitely another customer behavior you want to avoid!

Rule #2

Rule number two is you need to demonstrate ALL characteristics of an attractive male. I cover this in massive detail in Factors of Attraction blog so I’m not going to go into detail in this psot, but here’s some extra things to keep in mind when it comes to Exotic Dancers.

  • Take the conversation outside the events happening in the club. Any boring guy can make comments about what’s going on in the here and now. Tell her stories that take her mind away from the strip club and to fun or interesting feelings of events outside the club that she can relate to.
  • Avoid sexual topics. She deals with perverts all night, give her the relief of talking to a guy who’s interesting and not just interested in sex (even though you might be).
  • Don’t compliment her on her looks. Customers validate her all night telling her how beautiful she is, she doesn’t need to hear it from you. If you find a commonality or unique thing you find interesting about her, other than her looks, then by all means go ahead and tell her, but stay away from complimenting her looks.
  • Don’t be needy towards the girls. This is a topic I cover in Factors of Attraction blog, but it’s worth discussing again here. These women are usually very confident and socially savvy. They will pick up on neediness quickly so watch yourself. Don’t do anything you wouldn’t normally do, like don’t let her try to make you do things for her and tool you around. Be willing to tell her NO and/or walk away from any situation.

RULE #3

Show her that you can relate to and understand her world.

Women who work in a strip club often live an unusual lifestyle and they know that most men can’t handle it. Most of their life is spent in the club, dancing for strangers, going to parties, working late hours, and is often times fueled by drugs and alcohol. They know the average chode on the street can’t hang with this lifestyle so you need to convey that you can relate. How do you do this? Here are a few tips.

  • DO NOT call them Strippers. Have you noticed that throughout this report, including the title, I’ve mainly used “Exotic Dancer” to refer to women who dance in gentlemen’s clubs? That’s because this is exactly what the dancers refer to themselves as. Use the term “Exotic Dancer” and avoid using “Stripper” when talking to them.
  • Tell her you’ve dated an “Exotic Dancer” before. Want to show her that you understand her world and her lifestyle? The quickest way to do this is to tell her you’ve dated an Exotic Dancer in the past. This will put her mind at ease since you must already understand her lifestyle beings that you’ve dated an Exotic Dancer in the past.
  • Take the time to really understand an Exotic Dancer’s world and take an inside look at her world. What better way to show her you understand her world than to actually understand it!

Conclusion:

Like any other skill set, learning to pickup Exotic Dancers takes practice. At the end of the day these women are people too and you should take care to remember this when you are interacting with them. If you follow the 3 rules above and the guidelines that follow each of them seducing Exotic Dancers will become as easy as 1, 2, 3!

 

Attraction Formula

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“The Truth Behind Female To Male Attraction”Attraction Formula

What I’m about to share with you is going to change the way you think about attracting women and open up an entirely new world of opportunity for you.

Once you understand these concepts and learn how to apply them you might even smack yourself in the face for not noticing these things before. Don’t give yourself a hard time, 99% of men are clueless about these concepts.

This article is about Female to Male attraction, but before I get into the heart of this topic I want to take a quick second to talk about Male to Female attraction so we can compare and contrast the two to give you a better understanding.

What attracts a Man to a Woman is obvious but it’s important that we compare this with what attracts Women to Men so that you can see that there is a significant difference in the two.

If I were to ask you to make a list of what you find attractive in a woman, what would you write down?

I want you to be brutally honest with me here. Don’t avoid writing tits and ass to try to be wholesome and nice!

I’m talking about a supermodel walking in the room, and you feel instant attraction. What attracts you to her?

I think the most honest list we would see would look something like this:

Breasts
Butt
Hips
Beautiful Facial Features
Hair
Youth
And other physical qualities

Men are hard wired to be attracted to a woman’s physical qualities. Men decide within SECONDS of seeing a woman whether or not they are attracted.

Admit it, you see a hot girl walking across the room and you feel a powerful attraction before you’ve even spoken a word to her! This is OK, we are supposed to be that way!

Men are evolutionarily programmed to seek out attractive females because they have the highest chance of producing the strongest and most attractive offspring, therefore giving our genes a better chance of being passed on.

In most cultures this is very obvious common knowledge stuff. Why else would women spend thousands of dollars on beauty supplies, diets, clothes, surgery, and other things to make themselves beautiful?

Women do this kind of stuff to make themselves more physically attractive, so they can be attractive to the opposite sex, therefore giving them more mates to choose from.

Ok, so maybe I haven’t told you anything you don’t already know yet. But now that we have Male to Female attraction more clearly defined, we can take a look at Female to Male attraction, which is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!

“What Attracts Women To Men Is Not So Obvious, But If You Understand This You Can Flip Any Woman’s Attraction Switches…”

I want you to take a minute and come up with a list of all the things you think women are attracted to in men.

Now write these qualities women find attractive in men down in a list like we did above. This is a harder one isn’t it?

When I ask men this question, these are some of the common qualities I will see on their lists:

Looks
Nice
Money
Tall
Handsome
Romantic
Great Abs
Gentleman
Chiseled facial features
Muscles
Chivalry

Did you see any of these things on your list? If you did you can begin smacking yourself because these things have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH ATTRACTION!

Some of you might not believe me yet. This is because we’ve been socially conditioned through popular media such as book, movies, magazines, television, and internet to believe that these things are what women look for in a man.

While it makes a good fairytale story in movies, it unfortunately gives men the wrong idea about attracting women!

I know what some of you doubters are thinking now. If you ask a woman what she is attracted to what do you think she would say?

She would probably say something like, “I like a tall man, with a nice stomach, cute face, nice muscles, who treats me like a gentleman.”

I bet if you took this same hypothetical woman we are generalizing about and looked at the men she has dated or slept with, they would be nothing like what she described above.

The reason is because what a woman LOGICALLY thinks she wants in a man is NOT what she EMOTIONALLY responds to!

Now we’re getting somewhere! Read the line above ten times out loud so your subconscious hears it.

This is incredibly important for you to understand. A woman’s attraction switches are in her emotions, not in her logic!

Think about the standard approach most men have with women. They walk up, introduce themselves, and start asking logical questions like “What’s your name?”, “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?”

Engaging a woman like this will NOT spark attraction because you are approaching her logically. You need to learn how to approach her on an emotional level so you can flip her emotional attraction switches!

“So How Do You Flip These Emotional Switches?”

Earlier we talked about how men become attracted to a woman within seconds of seeing her. The same is not true about a woman’s attraction to men.

Women take minutes if not hours to decide if they are attracted to a man and attraction can fluctuate up and down at any time during your interactions with her.

Furthermore physical characteristics have little, if not nothing, to do with a woman’s attraction towards a man. Female to Male attraction is very different in the fact that women are hard wired differently.

Women are evolutionarily hard wired to seek out dominant males. Dominant males offer survival value, which is good for the survival of herself and her offspring. This increases the chances of her genes being passed on.

This does not mean you have to be a big hulky male to get women. In fact it’s quite the opposite. Any man can learn to convey these characteristics and gain attraction very quickly from any woman.

In seeking out dominate males women look to the following when judging attraction:

Women are hard wired to be attracted to a man’s behavioral cues.

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Women read social cues to see how others are reacting towards that man.

With that said, if we were to go back to our list of qualities women are attracted to in men it would change to be something more like this:

Confidence
Leadership
Humor
Tonality
Body Language
Comfort in your environment
Ability to stand out
Liked by other women
Indifference to what other people think
Boundaries of what you will accept from others
Control over your emotions and your reality
And more…

These are characteristics that are sub-communicated through behavior and social cues that women become attracted to!

Notice you don’t see anything about physical qualities, money, age, or being a nice guy!

Have you ever seen a woman with a man and wondered “why is she with that guy?”

Maybe the guy is 6 inches shorter than her, maybe he’s fat, maybe he’s 15 years older, or maybe he treats her like crap, but for “some reason” she is attracted to him.

That “some reason” is because this man has attracted her emotionally by sub-communicating attraction to her!

The same holds true as to why women are attracted to “bad boys”. It’s because these men automatically flip the right attraction switches for her!

I’m not saying that you have to be a bad boy or not be nice to women. You can sub-communicate the right qualities and flip these same switches without having to be a jerk to women!

G Spot Orgasm Technique

 

First Date Tips

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Tips for making the first date a success

A typical first date would be dinner perhaps some drinks, maybe catch a movie and then you both go home, sound familiar?

It should this is what 99.9% of men plan out for a first date. So what’s wrong with this? Well lets take a look at each different scenario. Take meeting someone for dinner, it sounds wonderful you know for sure that you both eat so why not go for dinner. Usually a first date the two parties don’t know each other very well and are going to be somewhat uncomfortable around each other. Then adding in that you have to eat in front of each other adds even more uncomfortableness. Since you’re not doing anything but eating the conversation could and probably will sway towards the boring side leading to awkward pauses and so on.

So dinner is out what about the movie? This is probably the stupidest thing you could do on a first date because you’re not going to be able to talk to each other. You’re not going to know her and she’s not going to know you any better than if you’d just met on the street. There’s nothing more awkward then sitting next to someone who you’re on a first date with and not talking to them for two hours and then getting out of the movie and your both thinking “okay so what now?”

So now that you know you can’t take her to a movie or out to dinner then what do you do? Glad you asked, here is the top secret method to making all your first dates a raging success make it FUN! I can’t stress that fact enough do something that is fun and something that she has probably not ever done on a first date. The key in all of this is to stand out from the rest of the pack every guy takes her on boring dates, you be the first one to take her on a date she’ll never forget.

Here are some great Date Ideas:

– Flying trapeze lessons

– Dance lessons (salsa, etc)

– Art Lesson

– Pottery Making

– Laser Tag

– Hiking

– Cooking Dinner (both must be active)

– Puzzle Night and Wine (Low Key) Must be the right type of girl

– Sporting Event

– Hookah Bar

– Picnic in a park

– Wine tasting

– Rock climbing

– Build a kite together

– Ice Skating

– Boating

Here are some tips to keep in mind while planning your date:

– Don’t tell her what you’re doing – Women love surprises when she doesn’t know what’s going to be happening she’ll be thinking about it all the time leading up until the date and thus be thinking about you all the time, which is a good thing.

– Make the date last around 1 – 2 hours – You don’t want to drag the date on. If it’s going well you can always decide to do something else together but its a good rule of thumb to always leave her wanting more.

– Always have an out – If the dates starts to go bad have some sort of an escape plan. For example have your buddy text you at a certain time and that gives you the option of making up a story about some emergency if the dates heading in the wrong direction.

– Always go for the kiss at some point during the date – If you don’t kiss her she may be wondering if you even like her and you risk being thrown into the “Friend Zone”. Make your intentions known.

– Scope out the date place – Make yourself familiar with the date location and surroundings. You should also be familiar with whatever activity you decide to do. For example if you’re going to fly a kite make sure you know how to fly a kite.

– If your deciding where to go (which you should) and it costs money you should at least have enough money to pay for her.

Last but not least just make sure you’re having fun because if you’re having fun chances are so is she and by following these simple guidelines you should have no problem scoring the second date!