Rules Every Man Needs To Know
First dates can be a very stressful time for both the man and the woman and not knowing first date etiquette can make it even more stressful. Allow me to shed some light on this subject and get you though your first date with ease.
When planning the date make it something fun and that YOU enjoy doing. Avoid the typical dinner and a movie. With the date activity the main objective is to make it something that she has never done on a date and thus sets you apart from all the other guys she’s probably gone out with.
Do not bring a gift for her yes this includes flowers. In most cases you don’t know your date from a hole in the wall so why would you bring her presents already. This is a big turn off for women and it shows that you are seeking her approval as if she holds more value than yourself. A woman wants to date a man who is her equal or holds more value than her.
Make the conversation exciting. Have some good stories from your own life in mind that you can tell that describe yourself as a fun guy to be around. You want to avoid topics such as religion, politics and anything that may be associated with bad emotions. When getting to know her, a good rule of thumb to follow is if the question you’re asking is also asked in a typical job interview DON’T ask it.
If you asked her out on the date and the date activity you choose costs money then YOU must pay. This is why I recommend making the date activity cost nothing or very cheap. You will NOT impress her by paying for an expensive date. Any attractive woman has men giving her stuff and paying for her things all the time, remember you want to stick out from the rest.
DO NOT wait until the end of the date to kiss her. You want to be flirty with her and touching her in a sexual way from the beginning. When the vibe is right go for the kiss! Waiting to the end will put unneeded pressure on both of you and just make it awkward.
There you have it first date etiquette tips every man should know. Let me know how your next date goes!