The question of how to be more attractive to women is a very broad subject. For this article I will focus on a somewhat counter intuitive way of attracting women and that is to not care if you attract them at all.
Let me explain, you see women have a very keen sense to know when a man is trying too hard to gain there attention and when they sense this they automatically lose any kind of attraction they may have had for you. The reason being when you’re trying too hard to gain the approval of a woman you’re actually sub communicating to her that you are of lower value then she is and you desperately need her approval to make yourself feel better about yourself.
This is very typical behavior of a man with little of no confidence. Examples of this can be buying a woman a drink before even knowing one thing about her. Telling her how beautiful she is without taking anytime to get to know her and any type of behavior that could be considered “sucking up.”
So what do you do? Simply don’t care about what a woman thinks of you. If she doesn’t like you, who cares! Is it really that big of a deal if some little cute girl doesn’t like you? NO, life goes on!
So many men give such high value to women just because of their looks. They place them on a pedestal as if they’re some great prize that they’re trying to win. You have to learn to be confident with who you are and not seek any kind of validation from anyone else. This is called being non outcome dependent. Meaning in any interaction with a woman you don’t care what the outcome is. Is she ends up liking you great if not that’s great too because you don’t care. You’re okay with who you are with or without her approval.
The next time you go out practice being non outcome dependent and you’ll be amazed on the way women seem to become more and more attracted to you. You’ll actually have women competing for your attention and trying to win your approval.