Attraction Formula

by Christian Thorne on November 21, 2011

“The Truth Behind Female To Male Attraction”Attraction Formula

What I’m about to share with you is going to change the way you think about attracting women and open up an entirely new world of opportunity for you.

Once you understand these concepts and learn how to apply them you might even smack yourself in the face for not noticing these things before. Don’t give yourself a hard time, 99% of men are clueless about these concepts.

This article is about Female to Male attraction, but before I get into the heart of this topic I want to take a quick second to talk about Male to Female attraction so we can compare and contrast the two to give you a better understanding.

What attracts a Man to a Woman is obvious but it’s important that we compare this with what attracts Women to Men so that you can see that there is a significant difference in the two.

If I were to ask you to make a list of what you find attractive in a woman, what would you write down?

I want you to be brutally honest with me here. Don’t avoid writing tits and ass to try to be wholesome and nice!

I’m talking about a supermodel walking in the room, and you feel instant attraction. What attracts you to her?

I think the most honest list we would see would look something like this:

Breasts
Butt
Hips
Beautiful Facial Features
Hair
Youth
And other physical qualities

Men are hard wired to be attracted to a woman’s physical qualities. Men decide within SECONDS of seeing a woman whether or not they are attracted.

Admit it, you see a hot girl walking across the room and you feel a powerful attraction before you’ve even spoken a word to her! This is OK, we are supposed to be that way!

Men are evolutionarily programmed to seek out attractive females because they have the highest chance of producing the strongest and most attractive offspring, therefore giving our genes a better chance of being passed on.

In most cultures this is very obvious common knowledge stuff. Why else would women spend thousands of dollars on beauty supplies, diets, clothes, surgery, and other things to make themselves beautiful?

Women do this kind of stuff to make themselves more physically attractive, so they can be attractive to the opposite sex, therefore giving them more mates to choose from.

Ok, so maybe I haven’t told you anything you don’t already know yet. But now that we have Male to Female attraction more clearly defined, we can take a look at Female to Male attraction, which is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!

“What Attracts Women To Men Is Not So Obvious, But If You Understand This You Can Flip Any Woman’s Attraction Switches…”

I want you to take a minute and come up with a list of all the things you think women are attracted to in men.

Now write these qualities women find attractive in men down in a list like we did above. This is a harder one isn’t it?

When I ask men this question, these are some of the common qualities I will see on their lists:

Looks
Nice
Money
Tall
Handsome
Romantic
Great Abs
Gentleman
Chiseled facial features
Muscles
Chivalry

Did you see any of these things on your list? If you did you can begin smacking yourself because these things have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH ATTRACTION!

Some of you might not believe me yet. This is because we’ve been socially conditioned through popular media such as book, movies, magazines, television, and internet to believe that these things are what women look for in a man.

While it makes a good fairytale story in movies, it unfortunately gives men the wrong idea about attracting women!

I know what some of you doubters are thinking now. If you ask a woman what she is attracted to what do you think she would say?

She would probably say something like, “I like a tall man, with a nice stomach, cute face, nice muscles, who treats me like a gentleman.”

I bet if you took this same hypothetical woman we are generalizing about and looked at the men she has dated or slept with, they would be nothing like what she described above.

The reason is because what a woman LOGICALLY thinks she wants in a man is NOT what she EMOTIONALLY responds to!

Now we’re getting somewhere! Read the line above ten times out loud so your subconscious hears it.

This is incredibly important for you to understand. A woman’s attraction switches are in her emotions, not in her logic!

Think about the standard approach most men have with women. They walk up, introduce themselves, and start asking logical questions like “What’s your name?”, “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?”

Engaging a woman like this will NOT spark attraction because you are approaching her logically. You need to learn how to approach her on an emotional level so you can flip her emotional attraction switches!

“So How Do You Flip These Emotional Switches?”

Earlier we talked about how men become attracted to a woman within seconds of seeing her. The same is not true about a woman’s attraction to men.

Women take minutes if not hours to decide if they are attracted to a man and attraction can fluctuate up and down at any time during your interactions with her.

Furthermore physical characteristics have little, if not nothing, to do with a woman’s attraction towards a man. Female to Male attraction is very different in the fact that women are hard wired differently.

Women are evolutionarily hard wired to seek out dominant males. Dominant males offer survival value, which is good for the survival of herself and her offspring. This increases the chances of her genes being passed on.

This does not mean you have to be a big hulky male to get women. In fact it’s quite the opposite. Any man can learn to convey these characteristics and gain attraction very quickly from any woman.

In seeking out dominate males women look to the following when judging attraction:

Women are hard wired to be attracted to a man’s behavioral cues.

PLUS

Women read social cues to see how others are reacting towards that man.

With that said, if we were to go back to our list of qualities women are attracted to in men it would change to be something more like this:

Confidence
Leadership
Humor
Tonality
Body Language
Comfort in your environment
Ability to stand out
Liked by other women
Indifference to what other people think
Boundaries of what you will accept from others
Control over your emotions and your reality
And more…

These are characteristics that are sub-communicated through behavior and social cues that women become attracted to!

Notice you don’t see anything about physical qualities, money, age, or being a nice guy!

Have you ever seen a woman with a man and wondered “why is she with that guy?”

Maybe the guy is 6 inches shorter than her, maybe he’s fat, maybe he’s 15 years older, or maybe he treats her like crap, but for “some reason” she is attracted to him.

That “some reason” is because this man has attracted her emotionally by sub-communicating attraction to her!

The same holds true as to why women are attracted to “bad boys”. It’s because these men automatically flip the right attraction switches for her!

I’m not saying that you have to be a bad boy or not be nice to women. You can sub-communicate the right qualities and flip these same switches without having to be a jerk to women!

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Best Pick Up Lines

by Christian Thorne on November 21, 2011

Best Pick Up Lines“Still Searching For The Best Pick Up Lines? I’m Going To Teach You Secrets To Attracting Women That Most Men Will Never Know About… “

Dear Friend,

Are you still looking for the best pick up lines for approaching women? Do you have the guts to walk up to a mixed group of men and women in order to get the girl you want?

When you are doing a cold approach, meaning walking up to strangers you’ve never met before, there are two ways to approach.

You either open direct or indirect. Let me explain…

When you open direct, this means you give a statement of intent right away letting her know that you are interested in her.

An example would be, “You are really cute, I had to come over here and see if there’s more to you than meets the eye.”

Anytime you give a statement of intent such as “You are really cute…” you want to balance that with a statement of disinterest such as “…I had to come over here and see if there’s more to you than meets the eye.”

Giving a compliment directly and waiting for her reaction can make her feel uncomfortable and make you seem needy and low value. Balancing it out like in the above opener shows that you value more than just her beauty.

Another example of a direct opener done in this way would be, “You’re very beautiful, but I bet we’d never get along”. This statement shows interest but also adds a challenge to her when you balance it out with “…but I bet we’d never get along.”

Opening direct can present problems when you have to approach a group of people. You might not want to give a statement of intent because you don’t want the rest of the group to “cock block” you.

This is when we use indirect openers. Indirect openers are neutral in that they give no indicators that you are after the girl. An indirect opener should engage the entire group and get them all interested in you.

An example would be “Hey guys, real quick, can I get your opinion on something? Who do you think lies more, guys or girls?”

This will start a conversation with the group in a neutral friendly way. After you’ve launched into this type of opener you can then move into a story and begin to befriend the group while pumping up the attraction with the woman you are interested in.

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Can She Be My Soul Mate?

by Christian Thorne on November 21, 2011

Can She Be My Soul Mate?“Can She Be My Soul Mate?”

Many men use the idea of having a soul mate as a comfort tool. They believe that one day they’ll meet that special someone and all of their dating and relationship problems will magically disappear. This is a terrible way of thinking.

Scarcity Mindset

Men who have few options with women have what is called a Scarcity Mindset. This limited mindset causes men to hold false beliefs and inhibit bad behavior toward the women they choose. A man who feels he has limited choices will easily obsess and/or attach himself to the few women he meets. Lets explore this further.

The Fantasy Of “The One”

Society pours the idea down your throat that there is only one person out there for you. They call them “the one”, “soul mates”, “twin flame”, or any other ridiculous name. These things are about as real as Santa Claus, Tooth Fairies, and Leprechauns, yet so many people like to fantasize that they are real.

The truth is there is not one person you are meant for. Holding this belief only holds you back from seeing the truth and having real options in your dating life. Sure some women are more “compatible” for you than others, but with over 3 billion women on this planet to choose from if you’re still thinking there’s only one for you, you are only limiting yourself.

People like to convince themselves that they’ve found a soul mate when they’ve made poor choices with who they date then all of a sudden someone comes along that they actually have things in common with and because they’ve never experienced this before they call them their “soul mate”.

Thinking that you can’t feel the same way about any other person is a false belief. That’s great that you were able to establish a strong bond with one woman but to think you can’t feel that same way about another woman is completely false. This type of mentality keeps people from moving on after relationships. It keeps them from getting out of bad relationships they should have never been in in the first place!

Be Complete On Your Own

We’ve all heard the other suck up false belief, “you complete me”. Men and women who are looking for someone to complete them are only hiding the fact from themselves that they don’t feel complete as a person on their own.

You need to find yourself and be completely satisfied with who you are, don’t try to find yourself in another person. You need to have more going on for you than her. Think about how unattractive that is to have nothing going on for yourself than her.

The moment you make her the center of who you are you lose the very thing that made her attracted to you. She was likely attracted to you for who you were and all the interesting things about you. Now if what you have going on for yourself is her, she will not be attracted to you.

This mentality will make you start to get needy toward her. You might subconsciously start sucking up to her. You might seek her approval as if she’s better than you. She will quickly pick up on these queues and lose attraction for you.

Learn To See Abundance

Once you learn to see abundance in the women you have to choose from it will open up a whole new world of opportunity for your dating life. You will never come from a “take what you can get” mind frame. You will see a ton of choice and will allow yourself to become choosy.

Guys often settle for someone they don’t actually want. When you’re with a woman and you are going to be exclusive with her ask your self, “If I could be with anyone I wanted, no matter what, would I choose this woman”. If the answer is no, you have made the wrong decision.

If you’re the type that’s only taken what he can get you likely don’t know what you want. Sure you should have a basic idea of what type of women you prefer, but you don’t really know what you want unless you’ve experienced a lot of different women. You might realize the type you think you want might turn out to not be right for you once you’ve dated that type.

There are a lot of women who also have Scarcity Mindset, but beautiful women do not. They have tons of men to choose from and they know it. They cannot relate to a man who doesn’t also see abundance. Women are attracted to men who are choosers, not men who wait to be chosen.

People are often scared to get out of relationships that they know aren’t right for them because they are scared that they won’t find someone else. It is important that you make being an attractive man a part of your identity and you are able keep that identity and still see abundance even in a relationship.

This will allow you to make healthier relationship decisions for yourself. If you decide that a relationship is not good for you it is easier to walk away knowing that you can get another woman rather than staying and creating an unhealthy situation for both of you because you lack the ability to see abundance.

You must believe there is abundance to receive abundance because once you believe your thoughts and actions will cause behavior that will allow it. Use this new mindset to allow you to not be needy or care about the outcome of any interaction. Be willing to walk away from all interactions.

Picking a mate is a big deal so be choosy. Keep your options open and get experienced. Whoever you do choose will be grateful because you’re a man with options and you chose her!

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Dating Tips For Guys

by Christian Thorne on November 21, 2011

“Dating Tips For Guys – How To Gain Attraction From Any Woman”

Congratulations on finding this article on dating tips for guys, you are about to join the 1% of men who know the correct information on how to attract a woman. What I’m going to give you is so much more than just dating tips for guys, I’m going to explain to you how attraction works for both men and women and how you can use that to your advantage to attract any woman you desire.

The first thing you must understand is that the way attraction works for a man is much different then the way attraction works for a woman. As a man you base whether or not you are attracted to a woman mostly on her appearance or the way she looks.

There is nothing wrong with this, in fact as men our brains are actually hard wired to work in this way. That’s why when you see a beautiful woman you can instantly know whether or not you would have sex with her. Women also know this, that’s why they spend so much time and money on things such as makeup, clothes, and anything else to make there outer appearance more attractive. A woman who is more attractive sub-communicates to men that she has better genes and thus is able to produce stronger off spring with a greater chance of survival.

Logically then as men we can assume that women are attracted to the same things such as looks, right? Wrong in fact that statement could not be more false. Looks are the least important factor when it comes to attracting a woman. You can add money, what kind of job you have, and what kind of car you drive to the list of things that don’t matter when attracting women. Attraction for a woman is all based on emotion where as a man’s attraction is based on logic.

A woman’s emotion attraction part of her brain is like a set of switches that can be switched in your favor or against you all depending on how you make her feel. So when you flip the switches in your favor she’s attracted to you and when you flip them against you she’s not attracted to you. Let me say it again flipping this switches has NOTHING to do with your looks or how much money you have!

The key to flipping her emotional switches to is display the characteristics that she would be attracted to. Such as confidence, being your own man, living by your own set of values and the list goes on and on. When you’re flipping her switches you’re connecting with her on a very deep emotional level and she can’t help but be attracted to you. Just as men are hard wired to respond to beauty, women are hard wired to respond to an emotional connection.

The best part about this is you can actually learn exactly what it takes to be able to flip a woman’s emotional switches and have her attracted to you in a matter of seconds! This kind of stuff will work on any woman in any situation because all women respond to the same things. As you can see this goes much deeper than just a few dating tips for guys, it’s about learning a skill set and being able to have choice in the women you date.

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Do Looks Matter?

by Christian Thorne on November 21, 2011

“Do Looks Matter? What Women Really Want”

One question I get asked all the time is do looks matter to women? Well yes and no, physical appearance such as height and weight are not the most important factor of attraction to women, but it is part of the overall package. With that being said there are things that are under your control in your physical appearance and these include style and grooming.

The single most important part of having style is to be able to stand out from the crowd and be congruent with it. What we mean by congruent is your style has to fit with your personality. For example, if you’re a doctor or a lawyer you’re probably not going to go out dressed like a punk rocker. You wouldn’t be congruent with that image.

You need to look at yourself and figure out what kind of image you want to portray. Know that if you dress gothic you’re probably going to attract more gothic girls. If you’re going for that punk rock girl it helps to have a little rocker edge to your style.

So how do you stand out from the crowd? Your work clothes are your work clothes. Go and buy some clothes specifically for going out. When going out you want to show that you have style and that you can stand out in a unique fashion. Women notice when you’re wearing something different from everyone else.

Typically if you’re dressed different you will have to put up with more social pressure. Guys might come up and tease you on what you’re wearing. This is why a lot of guys dress the same. They can’t take social pressure or stand up for their individuality. Being able to take social pressure is an attractive quality to women because it shows that you’re a strong male and can stand up for yourself and thus will be able to stand up for her and protect her.

Get something that’s a little different from the norm. The polo shirt is not a good shirt for picking up chicks. Get something that is unique that women will notice and start a conversation with you by asking about it. You’ll be amazed how often this can happen.

Shop somewhere besides department or trendy mall stores. Every city has little unique shops where you can find lots of cool gear. Get a city guide and find the shops in your area. If you travel often buy unique items from different cities.

Always try clothes on. They may look good on the rack but may look like hell on you.

One of the best things you can do is take a woman shopping with you. Women have great sense of style and can be a big help. Women are very observant. They notice the little things.

Accessorizing is a great way to stand out. Get a couple rings and necklaces to wear out. Get a stylish pair of shoes or boots. Boots in particular are good because not everyone wears boots and they will also give you a little height.

If you wear glasses consider getting contacts or laser surgery. If you insist on glasses, but they haven’t been updated since the stone ages, get some new frames.

Instead of going for a $9.99 haircut at the generic barber shop, go for the salon haircut that may cost you a little bit more but is worth it. They will be able to match a haircut with your facial features and it will really show. Don’t be afraid to throw a little color in too.

While you’re at the salon consider getting excess hair waxed. Wax your eyebrows to even them up and prevent unibrow. If you have excess hair on your back, chest, and stomach consider waxing those areas as well. These are personal decisions as some women like their men hairy. Younger generations of women tend to like their men groomed with less body hair.

Women make an effort to smell nice for their men. Return the favor by getting some designer cologne. This is something else that is nice to have a woman’s opinion on. Women tend to be the ones selling designer colognes so you can get her opinion on it before buying. Cologne smells different on different people depending on the oils on your skin so make sure you know what it smells like on you. It may smell nice on the test paper but once you mix it with the oils on your skin it might smell different.

Always keep your nails at the very least trimmed. If you really want them nice go for a manicure. Women do a lot of grooming to their bodies so keep in mind that what a woman does to herself she will take notice to on men. Not to say that you have to become some girly man, just don’t look like a slob.

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Dating Tips for Shy Guys

by Christian Thorne on November 21, 2011

“Dating Tips for Shy Guys – How To Start A Conversation”

Want to know some great dating tips for shy guys? If so then you’ve come to the right place. For this article I’m going to focus on the biggest problem most shy guys have and that’s starting a conversation with a woman.

When you go up to a woman to start a conversation this is known as opening or using an opener. In it’s simplest terms it just means you’re saying something to get her attention and to start a conversation.

There are two ways that you can open. The most common way most men open is to use a direct opener something to effect of saying to a woman “You’re so cute” or complementing her on her appearance in some way.

While this may work some of the time using this method telegraphs right way that you are interested sexually in her, which may scare her off.

The method I recommend using is an indirect opener. The best indirect openers telegraph no interest and ask an opened ended question (Meaning the woman can’t simply answer yes or no) and allow you to tell a interesting story.

A perfect example of a indirect opener is an Opinion Opener. Here is an example of an opinion opener. “Hey can I get your opinion on something? Do you think it’s weird if guys wear eye liner?”

The woman will then give her opinion then you can go into an interesting story explaining why you asked the question. From the example above you could say “Well I was wearing eye liner out the other night and I had so many women coming up to me saying how sexy my eyes were, but all my guy friends thought it was weird.”

This opener will work great because it telegraphs no interest and your story gives you high social status by describing how you were surrounded by women all night long telling you how sexy you are.

There you go, one of the best dating tips for shy guys is to use an opinion opener to start a conversation. You can make up your own opinion openers with real stories from your own life and they’ll work great!

The most important thing to remember is that your opinion openers telegraph no interest and that they ask an open ended question. Once you’ve opened then you can start the attraction process and that’s where the fun really begins.

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Does She Like Me?

by Christian Thorne on November 21, 2011

“Does She Like Me? How To Tell If A Woman Is Attracted To You”

It can be quite a daunting task for a man to have to approach a woman he’s never met and never talked to. In fact most men would rather jump out of an airplane than approach a beautiful woman. Then on top of all that you still have to figure out if she even likes you or not.

Wouldn’t it be great if you could tell if a woman liked you without her actually telling you she likes you. This would make the whole process of meeting and attracting women so much easier!

Well guess what women do actually give off subtle little hints to men that let them know that they are attracted to them. These little hints are called Indicators of Interest. Most men have no idea what these little cues are and walk around clueless to the fact literally dozens of women are wanting to meet them everyday. Here are some examples of Indicators of Interest.

- She asks you a question. Say you walk up to a woman you don’t know and she asks you a question and she then engages you back after you answer this is a huge sign she’s interested.

- Her body language opens up towards you. For example if she crosses her legs towards you or is leaning into you during conversation.

- While in conversation you notice her looking at your lips and mouth. This can also be a sign that she wants to kiss you!

- She holds eye contact with you. This can be a little bit of a scary one because sometimes it can feel uncomfortable to hold eye contact with someone for an extended amount of time but try to hold it for longer then you normally would.

- She’s comfortable with you touching her. This is an excellent one because you can actually test to see if she likes you by simply touching her on her arm or even touching her hair and if she doesn’t pull away that’s a huge indicator she likes you.

- She initiates physical contact in a playful way. Maybe she might hit you in the arm or pinch you something to that affect. This is her trying to flirt with and wanting you to flirt back with her.

Now that you know some of the signs a woman gives to let you know she’s attracted to you, you have to remember when you start seeing these signs you must act on them!

Inside I’ll give you my full report on Indicators of Interest so you can know when a woman is attracted and pump the attraction sky high!

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First Date Etiquette

by Christian Thorne on November 18, 2011

Rules Every Man Needs To Know

First dates can be a very stressful time for both the man and the woman and not knowing first date etiquette can make it even more stressful. Allow me to shed some light on this subject and get you though your first date with ease.

When planning the date make it something fun and that YOU enjoy doing. Avoid the typical dinner and a movie. With the date activity the main objective is to make it something that she has never done on a date and thus sets you apart from all the other guys she’s probably gone out with.

Do not bring a gift for her yes this includes flowers. In most cases you don’t know your date from a hole in the wall so why would you bring her presents already. This is a big turn off for women and it shows that you are seeking her approval as if she holds more value than yourself. A woman wants to date a man who is her equal or holds more value than her.

Make the conversation exciting. Have some good stories from your own life in mind that you can tell that describe yourself as a fun guy to be around. You want to avoid topics such as religion, politics and anything that may be associated with bad emotions. When getting to know her, a good rule of thumb to follow is if the question you’re asking is also asked in a typical job interview DON’T ask it.

If you asked her out on the date and the date activity you choose costs money then YOU must pay. This is why I recommend making the date activity cost nothing or very cheap. You will NOT impress her by paying for an expensive date. Any attractive woman has men giving her stuff and paying for her things all the time, remember you want to stick out from the rest.

DO NOT wait until the end of the date to kiss her. You want to be flirty with her and touching her in a sexual way from the beginning. When the vibe is right go for the kiss! Waiting to the end will put unneeded pressure on both of you and just make it awkward.

There you have it first date etiquette tips every man should know. Let me know how your next date goes!

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First Date Tips

by Christian Thorne on November 18, 2011

Tips for making the first date a success

A typical first date would be dinner perhaps some drinks, maybe catch a movie and then you both go home, sound familiar?

It should this is what 99.9% of men plan out for a first date. So what’s wrong with this? Well lets take a look at each different scenario. Take meeting someone for dinner, it sounds wonderful you know for sure that you both eat so why not go for dinner. Usually a first date the two parties don’t know each other very well and are going to be somewhat uncomfortable around each other. Then adding in that you have to eat in front of each other adds even more uncomfortableness. Since you’re not doing anything but eating the conversation could and probably will sway towards the boring side leading to awkward pauses and so on.

So dinner is out what about the movie? This is probably the stupidest thing you could do on a first date because you’re not going to be able to talk to each other. You’re not going to know her and she’s not going to know you any better than if you’d just met on the street. There’s nothing more awkward then sitting next to someone who you’re on a first date with and not talking to them for two hours and then getting out of the movie and your both thinking “okay so what now?”

So now that you know you can’t take her to a movie or out to dinner then what do you do? Glad you asked, here is the top secret method to making all your first dates a raging success make it FUN! I can’t stress that fact enough do something that is fun and something that she has probably not ever done on a first date. The key in all of this is to stand out from the rest of the pack every guy takes her on boring dates, you be the first one to take her on a date she’ll never forget.

Here are some great Date Ideas:

- Flying trapeze lessons

- Dance lessons (salsa, etc)

- Art Lesson

- Pottery Making

- Laser Tag

- Hiking

- Cooking Dinner (both must be active)

- Puzzle Night and Wine (Low Key) Must be the right type of girl

- Sporting Event

- Hookah Bar

- Picnic in a park

- Wine tasting

- Rock climbing

- Build a kite together

- Ice Skating

- Boating

Here are some tips to keep in mind while planning your date:

- Don’t tell her what you’re doing – Women love surprises when she doesn’t know what’s going to be happening she’ll be thinking about it all the time leading up until the date and thus be thinking about you all the time, which is a good thing.

- Make the date last around 1 – 2 hours – You don’t want to drag the date on. If it’s going well you can always decide to do something else together but its a good rule of thumb to always leave her wanting more.

- Always have an out – If the dates starts to go bad have some sort of an escape plan. For example have your buddy text you at a certain time and that gives you the option of making up a story about some emergency if the dates heading in the wrong direction.

- Always go for the kiss at some point during the date – If you don’t kiss her she may be wondering if you even like her and you risk being thrown into the “Friend Zone”. Make your intentions known.

- Scope out the date place – Make yourself familiar with the date location and surroundings. You should also be familiar with whatever activity you decide to do. For example if you’re going to fly a kite make sure you know how to fly a kite.

- If your deciding where to go (which you should) and it costs money you should at least have enough money to pay for her.

Last but not least just make sure you’re having fun because if you’re having fun chances are so is she and by following these simple guidelines you should have no problem scoring the second date!

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First Kiss How To

by Christian Thorne on November 18, 2011

How To Kiss A Woman For The First Time

This article is your official First Kiss How To Guide. After this you will have no problem knowing how and when to kiss a woman for the first time.

The biggest mistake most men make when it comes to getting physical with a woman is they wait until the end of the night before even touching the woman. This creates an awkwardness that is felt by both parties and can ruin your chances of seeing her again.

You should always do some flirty touching early in the interaction to make getting physical feel more natural. You should also kiss her during the date or interaction rather than waiting until the end of the night. This will bring you closer together and build a greater level of comfort earlier in the relationship.

When a woman is ready to be kissed she might give off little queues indicating that she is ready. If you catch her looking down at your lips and then back up at your eyes this is an indicator she is ready. If she licks her lips and / or puts on lip gloss or lip balm she is ready to be kissed. If you get close to her face and touch her hair and she doesn’t hesitate or back away she is ready for you to kiss her.

Women do not always show queues that they are ready to be kissed. If you find yourself thinking “should I kiss her” you should almost always go for it. When you are to the point of thinking this she’s probably been ready for awhile!

If you do not know how to initiate the kiss you can say the following:

You: “On a scale of 1 to 10 how good of a kisser are you?”

Her: “I don’t know, maybe an 8″

You: “Show me.”

(Pull her in for the kiss)

After the kiss you can playfully tease her about how she rated herself. Now the tension of the first kiss is gone and you can both enjoy sharing kisses for the rest of the night!

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