The reason pick up lines or openers were even invented was to give a man something cool to say when approaching a woman. They are structured in a way that is suppose to set you apart from all the other guys and begin the attraction process.
Often times after the pick up line or opener is given you would run a scripted routine to gain the attraction with the ultimate goal of getting a girl friend, phone number or even getting laid and you could do this to woman after woman after woman. Some men could get pretty good at this while most men would never really get it. While I admit if you were one of the guys who “got it” you could have great success but this success would come at a great price.
Many men who have relied only on pick up lines and routines to gain attraction often times feel that they can’t “be themselves” anymore. That to get a woman to like them they have to pretend to be someone else and it seems like they’re tricking a woman into liking them. This kind of thinking can really screw up your identity.
Most men who have relied only on pick up lines eventually get so fed up and depressed about not be able to be themselves that they give up on getting better with women and go back to the lonely life they know before just so they can feel like their own selves again.
What a lot of men don’t realize is there is another method that they could learn and that is to learn to become naturally attractive to women. What makes becoming naturally attractive different from relying on lines and routines is that you change yourself from the inside rather than from the outside with lines and routines.
When you become a “natural” attracting women becomes something you are not something you do. With natural game you learn to see yourself in a different light, you start to see that you are truly a man that can attract any woman he sees. Everyone knows what it feels like to have that “on night” when it seems no matter what you say or do everything just seems to be going your way. That’s what it’s like every day when you learn natural game.
There are also some down sides to natural game. For example it can seem like it’s a tougher road to start out on. It’s kind of like learning to ride a bike without training wheels but once you get it down you will start to see improvements much faster and everything you learn will forever be a part of you.
All and all every man who has made the decision to get better with women is already light years ahead of the rest of the pack no matter what method you decides to use. Ultimately the decision is up to you and you should use whatever you feel most comfortable using.
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