This is a very important question to ask yourself. Sure you say, “I want the hot one or the cute one” but believe it or not their personalities do matter. Not only do personalities matter but also what point they’re at in their lives.
Whether they are young and just having fun or if they’re older and more established all this matters depending on where you’re at in your life.
If you’re the kind of guy who likes to stay home and not go out then a woman in her 20’s is probably not going to be best for you.
On the other hand if your more of the stay at home type maybe you want someone who’s a little older and more settled. The important thing to keep in mind is there are millions of women out there, so on your search for the perfect one don’t get discouraged if you don’t find her right away it will take some time.
As far as looks go there are tons of different types of women from the super hot ones that every guy wants to ones that look a bit homely that not many guys talk to.
Something to keep in mind is the super hot model a lot of times doesn’t have the great personality that maybe a woman who’s not quite as good looking does.
If you plan on spending any amount of time with her this matters! So really take some time and figure out where you’re at in your life and what you want out of a relationship with a woman.
If it’s just sex you’re looking for maybe personality doesn’t matter as much, but if you want to talk to her it might. Just know what you want.Now you know what type of woman you want so where do you find her?
If you’re looking for that 20 something party girl then probably the best place to look for her is at a club or bar, but if you want that sexy business type then you’re best bet would be coffee shops, lounges, or bookstores. Not to say that both types won’t frequent the other venues but it’s just a rule of thumb.
If you’re going out in clubs and bars the atmosphere is going to be much different then that of a coffee house. Clubs are going to be loud, lots of stuff going on to distract the both of you. This is not necessarily a good thing or a bad thing you just need to know how to deal with it by being a cool interesting guy, which nothing bothers you. If you can do that you can overcome any loud bar or club.
If the bar or club scene isn’t really your thing try out some coffee shops or bookstores. Many times it takes much less effort to get to know a woman in this kind of atmosphere.
The reason being when a woman goes to a club she’s knows she’s going to be hit on so her defenses will be up, but because she’s not necessarily expecting to be hit on just hanging in a coffee shop or store her guard will be lowered.
With her guard lowered it makes it much easier for you to strike up a conversation. Bars, clubs, coffee houses and bookstores are not the only places that you can meet women. Wherever women are present is a good place to meet women. So no matter where you’re at if you see a woman you want to talk to go and talk to her.
You’re going to meet lots of women from lots of different backgrounds and cultures, some of them you will like others you won’t. It’s okay to experiment a little to truly find what you like.