Why Is Eye Contact Important?

by Christian Thorne on November 18, 2011

For the most part people are put into social situations that we must interact with people everyday. Some of us are good at it and some not so good the ones who are good at interacting socially almost always have great eye contact, but why is eye contact important?

Well just so the record is straight YES, eye contact is important in every interaction you have with someone from the clerk who you bought coffee from this morning to your future boss at your next job interview, but for this article I’m going to focus on why eye contact is important when it comes to attracting women.

First we must understand one of the most attractive traits a women looks for in a man and that is confidence. Most of you know this already but what you may not know is that when you look a woman in the eyes when talking to her you are sending very subtle signs that you are a highly confident man and this drives women crazy. It’s the total opposite when you catch eye contact with a woman and look away very quickly or you can’t keep eye contact during conversation you sending her signs that you a low confident man and thus less attractive to her. When your practicing your eye contact you want to be careful not to stare into her eyes this will probably creep her out think of it more as gazing into her eyes.

Learning to keep good eye contact is just one of the many ways you can learn to gain attraction from beautiful women and drive them crazy. So the next time your at the store or anywhere and you see that beautiful woman look her right in the eyes say hi and see what happens.

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